First part by Xzenu Cronström Beskow can be found here.
To recap, the ten lies that Melissa Farley claims to uncover, are:
1. Pain is pleasure; humiliation is enjoyable; bondage is liberation.
2. Sadomasochism is love and trust, not domination and annihilation.
3. Sadomasochism is not racist and anti Semitic even though we “act” like slave owners and enslaved [...]
Ve: When I first read Melissa Farleys piece ‘Ten Lies about Sadomasochism’ I wanted to respond. I did not know how, but kept the text in the back of my head.
Then, time went by, and I did not give a proper response. Instead, a couple of weeks ago I saw the text was mentioned [...]
The story about the bound hugfriend:
He is quite dominant, my hugfriend. So I tied him up. Not really like that maybe, but basically.
I’m not the ma/ist/e/ress of ropes at all, and he isn’t either, so I figured we should play around and workshop a bit in a nonsexual way to see what we could accomplish [...]
Daddy, I’ve been so bad. Not updating the blog…
No, not really. I’m just saying that all those updates I’m planning takes a bit more time than I thought. It’s worth waiting for, because we are going to be speaking about needles. We are going to look at a radical feminists argument against BDSM and pick [...]
Although this is written on a mobile device I’ve just felt the need to share what is happening in this moment. My fucktoy is lying next to me in bed, tapping away on the computer and working on a written task I’ve given him. In due time I will post the link to his work [...]
“I’d love to see you on all four, in front of some hot guy who would just fuck you senseless”
“you.. what??”
That’s a more or less exact transcript of a discussion this sunday, when I told my very much heterosexual male play/love/hugfriend (hugfriend? I’m keeping that one, from now on, he is my hugfriend) that I’d [...]
