I’m all tied up at the moment

The story about the bound hugfriend:
He is quite dominant, my hugfriend. So I tied him up. Not really like that maybe, but basically.
I’m not the ma/ist/e/ress of ropes at all, and he isn’t either, so I figured we should play around and workshop a bit in a nonsexual way to see what we could accomplish [...]

Plugged

Although this is written on a mobile device I’ve just felt the need to share what is happening in this moment. My fucktoy is lying next to me in bed, tapping away on the computer and working on a written task I’ve given him. In due time I will post the link to his work [...]

oops

“I’d love to see you on all four, in front of some hot guy who would just fuck you senseless”
“you.. what??”
That’s a more or less exact transcript of a discussion this sunday, when I told my very much heterosexual male play/love/hugfriend (hugfriend? I’m keeping that one, from now on, he is my hugfriend) that I’d [...]

A loveletter (on bondage and other important matters of the world)

When I then went to Sweden for the summer, I realized I needed something that was seemingly like a project. Something to focus on. With me I had the usual toys, but also 3 lengths of gorgeous jute-rope and some books on tying people  up. And in the end, I did exactly that, tying,  at [...]

My kinks vs yours aka mine are normal, you’re just weird

Having a partner that just recently opened up to the world of  lovely kinky sex opens up a world of trouble. Mostly wonderful, exiting and interesting trouble, but also some trouble I’d rather live without. For example the trouble I wrote about in the last post, but that wasn’t what I had in mind just [...]

I come crashing

Yesterday, I fell asleep. This isn’t abnormal or strange in anyway. But it’s how the story starts.
I fell asleep at the bed, still fully dressed, quite early last night, and my lover was sitting in the sofa doing things. After a while I woke up from him coming over to me and thinking that sex [...]