First part by Xzenu Cronström Beskow can be found here.
To recap, the ten lies that Melissa Farley claims to uncover, are:
1. Pain is pleasure; humiliation is enjoyable; bondage is liberation.
2. Sadomasochism is love and trust, not domination and annihilation.
3. Sadomasochism is not racist and anti Semitic even though we “act” like slave owners and enslaved [...]
Ve: When I first read Melissa Farleys piece ‘Ten Lies about Sadomasochism’ I wanted to respond. I did not know how, but kept the text in the back of my head.
Then, time went by, and I did not give a proper response. Instead, a couple of weeks ago I saw the text was mentioned [...]
Daddy, I’ve been so bad. Not updating the blog…
No, not really. I’m just saying that all those updates I’m planning takes a bit more time than I thought. It’s worth waiting for, because we are going to be speaking about needles. We are going to look at a radical feminists argument against BDSM and pick [...]
So yeah, I’m not religious and have been having a hard time to understand why people would want to be a part of a structure that through so many years clearly expressed a anti lgbt- attitude. I left the Swedish church in my late teens and even if I look back sometimes and think it [...]
A nice afternoon tea in a a clean suburb of London. I am actuallly outside zone 6 for real. Does not happen very often. Anyway, I’m meeting with relatives and we are pretty much done with the sandwiches as well as the cakes and the tea. The discussions has been many and I find myself [...]
We sit at the fastfood place, it’s early summer morning and we have just left the party were we celebrated Stockholm Pride. Me, one of my dearest friends and another lovely friend of mine are bubbly, high on endorphins and also tired after one week of queer activism and partying in the most beautiful city [...]
