Stuck in the essay-monster

While writing the last essay before X-mas, there is not very much time to post something proper, but instead, read this, a post about the problematic relationship between kink and gender. Or maybe even what problems with the structural relationship between gender looks like.
Both sides of the gender superiority thing construct a very narrow definition [...]

Ex-gay? Ex-dominant? Ex-switch?

You heard of the exgay movement? About the ex-sm movement? Take a look at this, but be warned, it is very painful.

This is slightly different than you might see in general from an ex-gay movement. This is a man who by his own choice wishes to stop being a pro-dom.  It [...]

I’ve been bad

 
Daddy, I’ve been so bad. Not updating the blog…
No, not really. I’m just saying that all those updates I’m planning takes a bit more time than I thought. It’s worth waiting for, because we are going to be speaking about needles. We are going to look at a radical feminists argument against BDSM and pick [...]

The female Oh-gasm

Hi, I know, Sorry, haven’t written for a while. I sort of started another blog that isn’t as secret as this one and sort of started writing there instead. Mostly about religion.
But right now I’m listening to a documentary about the female orgasm, and I felt like making a short contribution.
It’s interesting, because even if [...]

Gok? Gok my cock!

Latest news when it comes to stupidity and television is Miss Naked Beauty. Gok Wan, presenter of ”How to look good naked” (which has it’s own version on Swedish television) will now front a new show in
“the definite search for a natural beauty icon to represent Britain in 2008 and challenge the fake, distorted and [...]

Singing a tune that never ends…

There is so much out there to read. Blogs, internetmags, loads and loads. Sometimes we may come over something that is just so very good that we want to pass it on.  So we do.
SM-feminist is one of my regular weekly readings and one of the “Songs that never ends” is the one that is [...]